Mindful change

I like to go from here to there. With each significant change I feel both loss & gain; excitement and fear. I feel like a rock that has not moved right now, moss starting to grow on one side. Looking for ways to make the routine less mundane. Trying to be more mindful and appreciate what I have rather than this yearning; focus on the blessings. And as I make my mind up to be more like this, the opportunities for change present themselves. I immediately think, "who can I call?" to talk to about this and the question reverberates telling me, "no one is going to answer you with what you want to hear." If I choose to make a change, then, it needs to be a mindful change. The moss will wear off as I roll into a new place. Then I think about all those people that depend on me, believing my presence is valuable to them. Yet, I realize on a more intellectual level, "that's my ego talking." But I want to be valuable....It seems that I need to value myself from the inside out---- talking, knowing, doing TRUTH. Not so easy.